Dulu waktu belum berjilbab udah biasa banget dibilang pramugari..tapi kenapa sampe udah berjilbab pertanyaan ini masih begitu sering..
Disuatu lobby hotel Shangrilla Surabaya
Cowo Arab : I'm sorry..are you flight attendant in Saudi Airlines ?
Me : Nope, sorry
(whispering)..hihihi berarti muka gw masih ada arab-arabnya..;p
Disuatu ruang tunggu RSIA
Percakapan singkat bla..bla..bla
Ibu Hamil : iya kalo hamil emang harus ngurangin pake high heels..mba pramugari ya??
Me : Bukan bu..
(to be continue)
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Life After Married
In fact, I'm not even sure what is the right way married couple should feel after marriage. For me, I feel comfortable and glad that the wedding was finally over. We had painstakingly planned for a half year and everything ended in less than a day. We had lots of help from vendor and we persevere through the ups and downs of planning.It is not easy to handle the tasks and the stress that came from family members.
At this stage, I feel really comfortable with the shared life I had with my husband. I tried to minimize my daily bad habits like late woke up in the morning :p.
And of course, after married I have more creative to serve my husband with delicious food :).My new hobbies after married : cooking and cooking..
For me, I also learned about respect and communication.We've been fighting and argument but as time goes bye, we're trying to be more patient and chills out for a while.We don't expect each other mind-read each other. We learn to speak and express ourselves.We do our best to share what our thoughts and feelings are.
What I meant when I say respect is in the sense respect that he is tired after work and I just keep him comfortable when he gets home. Communication in the sense we share with each other our thoughts, problems and challenges so we can better understand each other and learn to cope together.When we share, we become closer too.
Two heads are definitely better than one, aren't they?
At this stage, I feel really comfortable with the shared life I had with my husband. I tried to minimize my daily bad habits like late woke up in the morning :p.
And of course, after married I have more creative to serve my husband with delicious food :).My new hobbies after married : cooking and cooking..
For me, I also learned about respect and communication.We've been fighting and argument but as time goes bye, we're trying to be more patient and chills out for a while.We don't expect each other mind-read each other. We learn to speak and express ourselves.We do our best to share what our thoughts and feelings are.
What I meant when I say respect is in the sense respect that he is tired after work and I just keep him comfortable when he gets home. Communication in the sense we share with each other our thoughts, problems and challenges so we can better understand each other and learn to cope together.When we share, we become closer too.
Two heads are definitely better than one, aren't they?
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